Was it from Forest Gump that said “Life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get.” or something like that. Our family, the Pizzalchik family, and all of our devoted Pizzalheads picked a bad chocolate that we couldn’t spit out and we lost our beautiful Judy. As with all beings that inhabit this plain there will never be another Judy she was the most courageous, loving, caring and devoted person you will ever meet.
My wife, partner, lover and best friend has departed on the next journey of her evolution. We will miss her but take solace in knowing that she is here guiding and protecting us while doing that witch has called her to the other side because that’s what Judy does takes care of business keeping one eye on the road while cloaking you with a blanket of love at the same time. Judy was a fulltime hands on business partner with me in Pizzalchik, there is so much of her here, fulltime homemaker, mother to our four children, whom she home schooled, and still had time to be my friend, lover and confidant all the time. To top all of this, it was like nothing for her to aid someone in need by lending them a sympathetic ear or sending a letter, Judy loved letters, to people she had never even met before. She knew that words of encouragement and support can help in times of need.
Judy was a passionate person that was only matched by my passion and that did cause us to lock horns at times, but at the end of the day, we would find ourselves sitting on the couch rubbing each others feet and talking about our life, and how we planned on growing old together and what that would be like. It was one of the last things she said to me “I’m sorry, we were supposed to grow old together”. That was classic Judy always putting her concern for me before her own; I had to tell her stop it! It's time for you to for once be selfish, don’t worry about me, concentrate on you!
Judy was only 42, and in a world that puts far too much focus on age she was just to young to go and had to much left to teach us, but this life is not always fair and we will continue on.
Judy was a survivor who has dealt with disease and imbalance on many occasions throughout her life, many of those considered terminal, but she defied those odds and survived. She was told by the doctors that she would never have children, but we did. She was truly an amazing woman and I am blessed to have had the time I did with her, and am amazed that she chose me as her life’s partner, I was not worthy.
A great man once said “they were just too good a person to live on this earth” It doesn’t mean much until lose your partner and now it’s something I completely understand.
Me, the kids and Pizzalchik will continue on defying all the odds as Judy did and as she would expect us to. It will be a challenge as the hospital bills are huge and that coupled with life expenses it’s a mountain that we must climb.
If you can help in any way, please click below and donate to the Judy Breakell Flower Trust.
Peace and love always,
Brad
